A Poem About Acceptance – 5. I Accept Where I am and Who I Am
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It's OK to accept yourself as you areThere is a great little story you may have heard already: Words of Spiritual Encouragement
A woman asks a second woman for directions. The second woman pauses a minute, and then answers: Oh, if I were you, I wouldn’t start from here. |
It is so so common that we do this to ourselves. How often do you say: I should know how to do this or be this already. For example, when thinking we should be different, we might say: I should be able to be calm.
Do you know how to be calm all the time? No. Do you know what? You are HERE, and it is OK to be HERE. It can be useful to know where HERE is. When we accept ourselves as we are, then we can stop putting our energy into pretending to be somewhere else. Then we can.... ...get the help we need or ...develop the skills we need or ...receive the directions we need to take the next step. Encouragement to accept and manage our anger: Can you learn how to stay calmer more often? Yes, you can. So yes, on the outside you might act in a calm way if you believe that to be the most helpful approach for yourself and others. But, you can also set out on the private journey to become someone who genuinely feels calm more often. That journey may mean recognising your anger. It may mean exploring your anger. It may mean feeling shocked at just how much anger you feel. But hey, isn’t it great to accept you are HERE so you have the freedom to move somewhere else. Isn't it great to accept who you are, so you have the freedom to grow gently into who you choose to be next. A Poem About Acceptance and Encouragement
Become HerSomeone tells you you have missed the mark, so you twist yourself to look like one who has already done the work and got there. Does it occur to you? – You have the strength and the ability to become her.
It’s OK to realise there is an alternative to pretence.
“Yet at the same time many even among the leaders believed in him. But because of the Pharisees they would not confess their faith for fear they would be put out of the synagogue; for they loved praise from men more than praise from God.” (John 12:42-43, NIV)
© Katherine T Owen, 2009. For spiritual poems on this site. For an explanation of the release – It’s OK to...
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For another poem about acceptance, move to
The 7 Stages of Grief for Illness: Acceptance
Move to the next one of the Poems of Encouragement: I Can Do It Move to a poem about acceptance of yourself as God sees you:
You are beautiful
The following article also continues the theme of how to accept yourself as you are - who you are and where you are in order to find peace.
Prayers For Relaxation And Rest, Quotes
The Contents List for Motivational Poem About Acceptance and Learning
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