Spiritual and Psychological
CFS Self Help

CFS Self Help follows on from:

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and Spirituality.

Please also see advice for Chronic Fatigue Syndrome Self Help on the page on Recovery from Chronic Fatigue Syndrome/ Myalgic Encephalomyelitis.

NB. The advice on this page is useful for living with any chronic illness.



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Here you will find advice that helped me move forwards when living with CFS.

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Our journey of self help and self growth may include approaches from all three areas. I look at the potential conflict between these approaches and at which one proved the most beneficial in increasing my resilence to difficulties.

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Meditation - now called mindfulness and now widely used as psychological self help. Dr Grayson talks about his new healing self help book and the importance of overcoming self limiting beliefs on the journey to healing illness

NLP - making beliefs and thoughts work for us

Spiritual and Psychological - CFS Self Help

When I got ill, long before I was diagnosed with M.E.( aka CFS ), I decided to explore spiritual and psychological approaches for CFS self help.

I figured the more comfortable I could feel in myself, the more energy my body would have available to heal.

Here are some of the approaches I used:

Raise self worth. The use of affirmations. Being willing to experience God's love.

No matter how ill you are now, you are OK.

Whether you recover or not, you are OK.

Your worth is not defined by your health.
Your worth is not defined by what you can do or by how nice you can be.
You are inherently worthy.

To have a spiritual belief is a huge advantage here.

Many of us base our worth on what we can do.

But, if you believe in a benevolent, all-powerful God, and you believe this creative force has something to do with you being here, then you are part of something greater than yourself and you have value - even if you can't see it right now.

As someone said: "God doesn't do waste." If you are here you are meant to be here.

Here are some words on the subject of your inherent value from John Henry Newman:

“God has created me to do Him some definite service.
He has committed some work to me which He has not committed to another.
I have my mission...

I am a link in a chain,
a bond of connection between persons.
He has not created me for nothing.
I shall do good. I shall do His work.
Therefore I will trust Him.

Whatever I do, wherever I am,
I cannot be thrown away.

If I am in sickness,
my sickness may serve Him.

If I am in sorrow,
my sorrow may serve Him.

He does nothing in vain.
He knows what He is about.

Amen”


Decide to stay alive

It would have been very easy not to engage in the extreme discipline necessary to stay alive with severe CFS.

I did not have a day off being a carer (for myself) in 14 years.
I did not have a day off being ill - in physical pain and distress - for 17 years.

Death was tempting.

An important part of my CFS self help was to make a decision to stay alive to the best of my ability.

I made a decision to keep physically fighting (whilst I also worked towards spiritual surrender.) When I realised I wasn't fully choosing life, I worked with an affirmation from the Bible: I choose life.
This was important both to my survival and my recovery.

Find a suitable pastime

It may be easier said than done, but as part of CFS self help it is important to find a pastime that is not related to the CFS or to seeking health, and which can be done within the limits of the illness.

I started receiving guidance in the form of poems and thought-bites.

Dictating, editing and reading these poems sustained me.

It was something that did not have to be done and did not have to be done well, so it was easier to pace myself than with many other activities.

I did not know if my spiritual poems would be seen by anyone else, but now my small book Be Loved Beloved is published on kindle.

My second book, It's OK to Believe - A Journey With Faith and Reason, will be published in 2014 or 2015.

Click to read Katherine T Owen's poems on the website.


One of the gifts of living with Severe CFS was that the spiritual journey became my priority. It continues to be my priority now I have recovered.

Click here to read about Pastimes Chronic Fatigue Syndrome / ME.

Commit to feeling your feelings and expressing them safely

Whilst living with CFS, my speech was limited and I didn't have anyone I could speak to honestly about how bad things were. However, I used a dictaphone to get my thoughts out. And I used my Disability Living Allowance to pay a typist.

For more about feeling your feelings as part of the process of CFS self help or learning to live with any illness, see “Am I Allowed To Feel Angry? What Are The Benefits Of Feeling My Anger?”

The page on feeling your anger is part of a series of pages on the the 7 Stages of grief we go through in learning to cope with a loss of health.

To read about techniques to feel your feelings, go to EFT technique or to The Journey Process.

Read books that nurture you

When Living with CFS at such a severe level, I could read for only a few minutes at a time out of an hour. But this was still enough to work my way, over the years, through many wonderful books on psychology and spirituality.

Forgiveness Exercises - The Release

My own self therapy practices developed, and I referred more and more to my work of improving my self talk and releasing judgement on any upset.

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A commitment to looking at your shadow self

As human beings we suppress a lot of feelings, memories and hidden beliefs about ourselves. This takes energy and when, with CFS (or any other chronic illness), your energy drops, you may find some of this junk, this shadow self, coming to the surface.

Of course, it also takes energy to look at your feelings, memories and beliefs. And it is not ideal that you do so when living with CFS /M.E.. But, as you know, life is sometimes not ideal.

If stuff comes up, it comes up.
Long term, as part of my CFS self help, it took less energy for me to look at this stuff than to live with it.

Now I am in better health, I still have a commitment to looking at the shadow self when it makes itself known.
Each time I "embrace" the shadow, it brings healing in another area of my life and I walk on with yet more joy.

Self Therapy. The World As A Projection Of Our Thoughts

Most of my therapy has been self therapy. This is very possible once you accept the belief (included in A Course In Miracles) that the world is a projection of our thoughts.
If you don't like what you see, you may choose for that to be the next "thought" you explore and work to change.

The idea that the world is a projection of our thoughts is discussed a little in the section on Do Our Beliefs Create Our Reality?

And if the idea that our beliefs create our reality is already familiar to you, some of the quotes on Are We All Atheists? may be of interest.

Go here for the definition of non duality.
Non duality is the belief that God's Love is the reality and the world is an illusion.

Now, it's your chance to contribute to the discussion on CFS self help or self help relating to any other chronic illness...

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15 Spiritual Love Poems
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For 14 years, Katherine T Owen was severely disabled with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis, unable to walk, with little speech, and with inadequate care.

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